Love Spoils
A natural human tendency when they love someone too much; we pamper them. As mother, because I love my children so much, I will pamper them and letting them have their own way sometimes. This makes me realized that I have been pampering my husband too much because I love him so much. I think I have spoilt him.
I realized that part of the reason I want to resign is to discipline him, to give him back his responsibility, to be the breadwinner. I have enough. Since he started the business, I am the one who worries and find ways to get extra income. I blog like mad and felt sick a few times due to lack of sleep. In the event I neglected my children.
I am putting a stop to this by resigning coz I cannot depend on my hubby to teach and guide our children in their studies even though he has more time with them compared to me. Let him worry about money. That is his responsibility, not mine.
I wanted to tell you this too but worry might offense you. Now I am glad now u realized this fact at last! But you still have to support him from his back, dont totally rely on him at beginning.
Why men cannot guide their children when they are young? My hubby thinks like that too, saying that I am better with the kids.
jess ~ of course i will support him. if he susah, i also susah mah.
jo-n ~ i still cannot comprehend that too. maybe we have more patience and compasion