First Love…never let it go

During our dating days, we cycle a lot; especially at the beach. It was because we couldn’t afford a motorbike what more a car. hehe. I will ride on my brother’s mountain bike and my then boyfriend on his old “apek” bicycle. Those big black bicycle with a pole in the middle. We can cycle really far and now when we think about it, I don’t think we have the stamina to do so.

I always wanted to get the pink beach cruiser but my part time pay was only $200 a month. Too little to buy me a new bicycle. If not I will sure get one and stick those pink and flowery beach cruiser design decals. They look so sweet and pretty.

Please ah, you don’t come to rob me at that time ah. I have a long parang plus a few of hubby’s weapon collection and I know Karate too.

Hubby’s staff took leave from last Saturday till this coming Friday to mind his only son because his wife when back to Indonesia to mourn for her brother that just passed away. So hubby has to be at the shop the WHOLE day.

8am is the time I leave home to work while he is still fast asleep. 1.30am is the time he came home from work while I am fast asleep.

I did go to visit him at the shop after work on Monday but it is very tiring for me to drive all the way there after work. Didn’t go last night coz I need to bake some cookies for CNY.

I’m deprived of his attention.

You wanna know what is my first pet? I thought it was fishes until they grew legs and hop out of my mini aquarium one day. I know you are laughing at me now. Go ahead and laugh. I was a kampong girl okay, I don’t have the privilege of owning encyclopedia. I learn from my surrounding not from the book. Since that day, I know that little black fish that looks like sperm is tadpole.

My eldest has been asking for a pet and she specifically wants a hamster. She is only 5yo and I think she is too young to understand about pet care. I worried that she will want to touch and hold the hamster tight every second and will cause the poor animal to suffocate. Just like what she did to the chicks! So I told her that she will only get a pet when she is 7yo. Well, hamster will be her 7yo birthday present.

One of hubby’s bad habit to PU in the sink. I really hate it when I need to brush my teeth and the pungent, stinky smell of his urine penetrates my nose. I nag him told him so many times to not shee-shee there but my lazy bum is just plain lazy to walk out the room and shee-shee in the toilet. I have second thought when he said he wanted to fix new bathroom vanities in the room. No point if he keeps polluting it with his shee-shee.

My girls love asking me about the story of my life. Just like when I was young, I love asking my mom about her growing up years.

My childhood days are easy and smooth sailing and I do not experience hard life like my mom who has to follow her dad to the rubber plantation at the age of 10yo. Many times, I do not where to start. So I asked them about what they want to know. Most of the time they will ask about my pregnancy and their birth story. They want to know how they were like when they were in my tummy and how they came into this world.

One day my eldest asked me, “Mommy, you tell me the story about your teeth.” I didn’t expect her to notice that I have a chipped front tooth. If I have gone for cosmetic dentistry then my girl won’t know this part of my life story; about me watching too much TV, got giddy and fell while riding motorbike due to giddiness.

I thank God that I have a husband, then boyfriend that does not look at the outward beauty. I used to whine (still does from time to time) about how ugly my face is with acne and scars and now with my flabby tummy due to pregnancy. He kept reminding me that God does not see the outward appearance and what is important to Him is our inner beauty; our character, our heart, so does him. That is why above all the acne on my face, he still wants me. *beaming* Some guys would go hiding from me already!

However being a woman, no matter what the husband says about us, we still wanna keep our body sexy. Women are vain, what. Some who are lazy to exercise and do not have the strong will to control their food intake will opt for liposuction; one of the easiest ways to loose those stubborn fats. Oh ya, if you plan to go for it, be sure to do some liposuction revision before going under the surgeon’s knife because there are so many types of liposuction.

When it comes to buying gift for hubby, I need to be very practical or else, my gift will be chuck one side. For this Valentine’s Day, I think I will get him a pair for eyeglasses because he did mention that he wanted to change his. I hope he don’t mind if I get him the Zenni Optical $8 Rx Glasses. It is cheap and the ship internationally too. At Great Discovery: Zenni Optical, their glasses are prescription glasses. So I’ll just order according to hubby’s power, and it is ready to wear. Best Thing Found: Zenni Optical does make my Valentine’s shopping easier.

Often times when I am hungry at night, I would love to go out for supper. This normally happens when I have a lot of blogs’ posts to write or I had taken only a light dinner before that. I would ask my husband to follow along and we would hop into our car and drive around to find the food stall. However, there are limited choices here in my hometown to find good food at night.

After 12 midnight, the place is virtually quiet. Yes, there are certain places where some shops are still open and these places would normally be crowded. Unfortunately these places are far from my house. It is not worth going so far for just a piece of roti canai and a cup of teh tarik. Haha…now you know the food of my choice for supper.

Sometimes I do wish that the place where I stay would offer various things for me to do during the night. It would be great to experience a night life like San Diego night life where everything is just like the day or sometimes even better. For the time being, I had to be satisfied with what this place has to offer.

I waited and waited for my hubby to finish bathing. He has been in the bathroom for more than half an hour. Well, normally he is not this long. Don’t tell me that he is doing his “hubba hubba” which is very unlikely. So I went to the bathroom. The door was locked. There was no sound of water splashing or any activities in the bathroom.

I gently knocked on the bathroom door. He asked who is it. I replied and he opened the door. He is still clad in his towel, standing in front of the bathroom mirror. In his hand he is holding the hair remover clipper. He has been standing there in front of the bathroom mirror plucking out his white hair. Haiyaaa… so that is what he has been doing in the bathroom for the past half an hour.

“Wah…so many white hair de.” I told him as I noticed the many strands of white hair on the sink. “If you continue doing that, sooner you will need to do a hair transplant“, I continued.

He replied, “No need lah, I already married you”. Hahahaha….maybe I will get a bald husband. It’s okay as I still love him.

My parent, the one who brought me up never ever complaint or said a word about me being stubborn but my hubby who really knew me in less than a decade always points his finger at me when our children behave stubbornly. “Because you are stubborn, that’s why your children also stubborn.” Hello, doesn’t they have your genes too.

Truthfully, maybe he said it jokingly but it hurts deep inside.

A friend told me, “Man sometimes love to keep their brain inside the freezer.”
I replied, “No wonder so cold.”

I was very sleepy that day and I asked him to put the children to sleep then I went to bed first. It’s not that he never put the children to bed before. Soon after that he came into the room asking me to sleep with the children or in other word, put the children to sleep.

Can’t you let me sleep and help me settle down the children? Why must you wake me up? It is not like everyday I ask you to do this. So I refused and go back to sleep.

When I was already sleeping, I heard my MIL call me telling me that my son is crying non stop. Being a mother, I can’t bear hearing his cries but the door to their room is locked. Hubby is inside with them and he just let him cry. I knock the door, he refused to open until my son vomited due to prolong crying.

I am very very upset with his action. Why didn’t he coax him? Did he purposely bully my son because I refused to put them to sleep? That is how I see it. Retaliation. His action is so childish!

Maybe I should get the discount hotels Las Vegas and go enjoy myself there and de-stress.

My love is thinking of making the cybercafe business own shirt. Now, he and his staff would wear collar T-shirt to work. However, some of the shirt bears other companies’ name or have certain wordings and slogans that are not suitable to be worn at work. He said that it is good for the business status and professionalism that it have its own custom made collared T-shirt.

I asked him to look for a Tshirt Printing shop and look at the various T-shirt designs that the shop can offer like . He said that he wants to create his own design. Well, I think he can Design Tshirts Online and create the design that is suitable for his business. As for me, I think the color of the Tshirt must be strikingly bright and portrays something that is exciting and can catch the customer’s attention. It must not be in dull dark colors.

As for the wordings on the Tshirt, he should include the business’ slogan too. The slogan, “Connecting the World” and “Dunia Di Jari Anda”(The World At Your Fingertips) reflects well the internet business. I am sure that with the Tshirt, the business will move to providing better service to the customers. Of course, the Tshirt must also be accompanied with friendly service if it wants to have returning customers. Hmm….maybe I should create one Tshirt design for my own family. Not a bad idea….lol.

This is love to me…

His arm and his leg envelopes me; almost.

He will make sure I cuddle him too by taking my arm and place it on his body. If I move my arm away, he will take it back and put it back.

When he is fast asleep, he won’t be cuddling me anymore but he will snuggle close to me.

I’m loving it.

I prefer to sleep with him than with his daddy. Hehehe.

We started our family devotion on Sunday. Unfortunately I was not able to join because I was busy doing something else. I just can’t remember what I was busy with! Hmm…maybe I was attending to my son’s needs.

Anyway, soon we would have our very own first communion invitations card to give away. That is after my girls accept Jesus in her heart. They have started to understand more and more about God and Jesus. I am so happy when they started talking and asking about Jesus and wanting to know more about him.

I really don’t like feeling fat. I know I am fat because my tummy is bulging and my pants are tight. And also when you are in bed, going hubba hubba, not only you do not have much stamina to last as long as possible but the scene isn’t nice seeing so much flab, flabbing away.

So now, I am thinking, should I or should I not get the eca stack or any diet pills to help me burn my fat faster. I can’t fast because I will surely have gastric attack. I can’t run and swimming pool is too far away from home. How?

When one door is closed, there will always be another door opened for us to earn some side income. That is why God reminded us that we should not worry about tomorrow. He will surely take care of His is own creation.

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Aiya! I should have bought some gold jewelry two weeks ago when my colleague informed me that the price of gold has dropped. Now gold is more than a hundred ringgit for a gram. That is way too expensive for me.

I wanted to get a wedding ring for myself since the one that I have now couldn’t fit my fingers anymore. Why? What else? Fat lor.

Look like I will still stay unwed without the wedding ring on my finger unless all my three children tag along wherever I go. Then I am definitely married!

My SIL; my brother’s wife is a nurse and she has been working as a nurse for more than 10 years. Two years ago, she stopped to care for her children when my brother left to another state for work. Now my brother is back in home and she has started working as a nurse again.

She did mention to me that she might get the medical id watch if she did not resign two years ago as a token of appreciation for loyal staff. Anyway, I think she would get one soon because she is really good at what she does. All the doctors and nurses love her.

Oh ya, talking about my sister. She just started a kindergarten. Not hers but her boss entrusted her to run a whole kindergarten by herself. She has to start it from scratch. The other day, she went shopping to get all the necessary stuff for the kindergarten like cups, plates, forks and spoons and not forgetting medical supplies too. Where you have active kids around, there will surely be falls and cuts.

Well, I heard from my mom that my youngest sister has set the date for her wedding dinner on November 29, 2008. That will also be my pre-birthday dinner. hehe. It is because my birthday falls on November 30, 2008. I think hubby would say, “Phew! Save some money to bring her out for dinner that night.” Psst! Aren’t you forgetting that we would be spending much more for the Angpow for my sister???

They have also bought a new double storey terrace house. It would be very cost saving if we have directbuy here. They would be able to save tonnes of money buying at the manufacturer-direct prices. As for now, they just use their credit card to swipe first and think about how to pay them later!