My parent, the one who brought me up never ever complaint or said a word about me being stubborn but my hubby who really knew me in less than a decade always points his finger at me when our children behave stubbornly. “Because you are stubborn, that’s why your children also stubborn.” Hello, doesn’t they have your genes too.

Truthfully, maybe he said it jokingly but it hurts deep inside.

A friend told me, “Man sometimes love to keep their brain inside the freezer.”
I replied, “No wonder so cold.”

I was very sleepy that day and I asked him to put the children to sleep then I went to bed first. It’s not that he never put the children to bed before. Soon after that he came into the room asking me to sleep with the children or in other word, put the children to sleep.

Can’t you let me sleep and help me settle down the children? Why must you wake me up? It is not like everyday I ask you to do this. So I refused and go back to sleep.

When I was already sleeping, I heard my MIL call me telling me that my son is crying non stop. Being a mother, I can’t bear hearing his cries but the door to their room is locked. Hubby is inside with them and he just let him cry. I knock the door, he refused to open until my son vomited due to prolong crying.

I am very very upset with his action. Why didn’t he coax him? Did he purposely bully my son because I refused to put them to sleep? That is how I see it. Retaliation. His action is so childish!

Maybe I should get the discount hotels Las Vegas and go enjoy myself there and de-stress.