First Love…never let it go

How I wish!

We are just going to revisit our honeymoon destination tomorrow; Genting Highland. We are leaving Malacca to KL today for FOOD, specifically, DIM SUM.

This time we have multiplied. It won’t be just the 2 of us. Our 2 daughters will tag along. I really love that they are coming along because I worry that hubby will hibernate all day long like what he did during our honeymoon there.

I kinda regretted picking Genting Highland as our honeymoon destination. He slept and slept and slept. Hibernate you know. We are supposed to be in “honeymoon” remember???

I must make sure that no cold places for our 2nd Honeymoon. We are going to an Island or a Desert.

I remembered that I mentioned to one of my blogger friends that besides communication, sex is very important in marriage. We should put extra effort to spice our our sex life.

There are many places you can get sex tips online and being able to perform better for your lover is important in many couples relationships. There are different sex games that include different sex toys and other methods to make the relationship more exciting.

More and more families have a home theater now. Hubby wished that he could have one too; unfortunately I don’t agree with that idea. Firstly, we do not have any extra room in the house and secondly, we hardly have time to watch movie due to running the business and parenting. Thirdly, pay up your business loan first!!! If he wants to get the home theater chairs, I might allow that. If it is comfy and one that reclines. I could do my reading there and then nap.

We went for car hunting just now. We are quite attracted to Proton Persona; the price is attractive too; affordable. Full loan of 9 years, RM565 a month. Praying that God will bless hubby’s business and my blogging that we would be able to settle the loan before the 9 years is up.

We will only decided to buy after we return from our Genting trip this Monday. I wonder whether they would offer freebies like medicare advantage. Tinted glass they will.

I am so excited. I can’t wait to drive a new car again; especially for hubby. As far as I know, he never own a new car before.

I shall work harder and pray harder.

I got prezzie from hubby. Ermmm…not really. This is what he got after he wrote a review about Penelope on our anniversary day; February 12. The day, we became a couple.

My face was covered with pimples then and he still “want” me, not because of my outward appearance but who I am inside. He was the one who always encourages me to look inwardly because I always feel sad and inferior due to my acne problem.

We added 2 computers and started offering computer repair and services. Hubby is thinking to buy a Workbench because it is durable and has ample space compared to the normal computer table, they one he is using now. Maybe he will buy it from Formaspace because they offer quality products. Not any type of quality but superior quality. Every penny spend must be counted.;)

We are determine to bring Clarissa to church whether she has temperature or not. The fever left her that night (Saturday night) itself.

So obvious that the devil is playing his game and we won.

All glory to God.

And we believe that it is the devil’s work.

Almost every weekend one of my children will fall sick and due to it, we skipped church to care of them and not let other children in church get the virus that they might carry.

Last week, Belle had fever. Today, Clarissa’s turn and we are not going to skip church. We will bring her to church and let the pastor pray for her.

Not going to allow the devil to prevent us from going to church.

On Thursday as we were driving along the Klebang Besar road, hubby pointed to a building telling me that since he started practicing (law) he has been praying that the owner will bless the church with the building to be used for ministry purposes like a drug rehab centre. Then the building was run down and looks abandon. Now it has been renovated but still no occupant. Maybe the building is meant for ministry that’s why until today, it is still empty unless and until the owner bless it to the church.

I hate possessive love; if there is such a term. My ex-bf is a VERY possessive man and I felt so “rimas” trapped being with him. That is why he is my EX.

I went into a relationship with him right before I left for varsity. He bought me a mobile phone that cost almost RM2k. I thought he did that because he would miss my voice and for emergency purposes but it is more to keep track my whereabout and who I am with all the time! So most of the time, I left the phone in the drawer!

I think arh, if possible he would place the vehicle tracking device on my motorbike!

My hubby is totally the opposite. Some times I wonder whether he care for me because most of the time, he couldn’t be bothered where I am and with who. I love this arrangement. hahaha We need some space too right?

I love the beach but not the scorching sun. But those Angmoh loves getting their skin burnt. They all can lar, without their tan skin, they look like sick people to me. If I go for sun tanning, I will walk home as an Indian lady instead! hahaha.

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Even though I live in Malaysia, I cannot go without the water heater. I used to be able to stand under the cold shower at 7am in the morning but after I have 3 children, I will definitely shiver if I were to do the same. My body is not as strong and healthy like it used to be.

Do you know that in US, their hot water comes from tank? Unlike ours, where we just need to press the button and hot water comes out straight from the pipe. However now they do have the tankless water heaters. I wonder why last time doesn’t have.

I bought term life insurance last year and hubby got it much earlier. All this while I have been paying for all the insurance premium. Now that I am out of job (almost) and not much income from blogging too, I am wondering whether should I cancel my policy? I do not like to be burden by all this financial matter. I want to have cash in hand for my children’s education.

Hmmm…maybe I should hunt around for those low cost, or cheap term life insurance quotes. At least my children will have some extra money to bury my dead body.

Not showing off my macho hubby here. *ahem* but the t-shirt that he is wearing. After a year in business, we finally printed our own t-shirt. Nice or not?

Anyway, hubby bought 6 pieces only; 3 for hubby, 3 for his assistant and none for me.

I think we should print for the whole family eh. One for me and one each for my children. We would wear it when we visit their daddy at the shop.

Do you like sending ecards? I used too when I was in school just for the fun of it like this cat ecards. It is very funny like the cat is saying “Oh Shit! Where’s my shit???”

But I like real cats ecards. They are cuter than drawings. My 2nd girl would go crazy seeing a cat, whether it is alive or just picture. I am still wondering the reason she loves cat so much. I am actually terrified when a real cat walk near me! I have bad experience with cat when I was in campus.

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We skipped church again yesterday because my eldest was having a temperature. Normally we would send them to my mother’s if the sickness is not so serious but yesterday, my mom went to Seremban to visit my aunts. So I stayed home with the kids and let hubby go to church.

It was quite a relaxing Sunday for me. Bathe them, feed them, watch cartoons with them, read with them and of course discipline them when they go over the limit.

Hubby informed me that the NECF is urging Christian to stop and pray at 12 noon sharp for our country and the leaders. Due to the recent election result, Christian really need to pray for the new leaders that will be making decision for our country. I pray that they will put God first in every decision that they make. I pray these leaders will be a God fearing people.

If you want to gather prayer warriors for a prayer retreat maybe to Branson Missouri, if you have the means, go but God will still hear us loud and clear no matter where we pray.

We decided that we still want to have financial freedom that is not to owe anyone money. Not that we are financially free now. We have business loan to pay but at least that will be paid off in 3 years time. We have home loans to pay too but that is taken cared by our tenants. Pray that we will have tenants until the loans are paid off.

To buy a new car, we will be in debt for at least 4 years for used car and 9 years for new car. I am not ready to add more debt into our life. Sometimes I regretted not knowing about paid post earlier. If not I would have bought a used car for cash. Those were the days when we still have our Page Rank; easily we can get RM5k a month.

Now, with me working only half day with half pay and not much paid post to write, it is unwise to go into more debt. So we decided to fix our current car until it can bring us outstation and climb the Genting Highland slopes. I could also use some of my money to upgrade my laptop memory. Make it run faster and maybe I could grab more opp that way.

Some people show love buy giving expensive gift to their love one like buying the IWC watch that cost tens of thousand dollar. Well, if you are super rich like the Sultan of Brunei, this amount is a piece of cake.

If you are super not rich like me, buying a used car must think thousands of time! Yes! I ever thought that one day I could surprise hubby with a new car. I wonder when will that day come.

Lord, please let it be soon.

We are in a chicken and egg situation. We wanted to travel more often. On land, driving from one state to another. But our currents cars does not permits us to do so. So, we are thinking of getting a better car. We are not rich and can’t buy a car for cash. I did dream for a while that I might be able to buy a used car for cash but that dream has gone down the drain.

Anyway, back to reality and like anyone that is not rich like us, we need to pay installment every month in order to own one. If we need to pay installment every month, then we won’t have much to spend travel or holidaying.

Want to travel, no car.
Got car, no money to travel.

Anyone generous out there that can spare us your car whenever we need to travel? hehehe

I wrote about financial blessing some time ago. But sad to say that it all has gone down the drain.

I am still figuring out what is God trying to teach me here.

I could explode and reveal the company of its unprofessionalism.

I could link to the blog of the GM of the company that headhunted me and then disappointed me.

I could claim for my rights.

Hubby said I could even sue the company.

But I did not do any of the above. My conscience is telling me to just leave the company and the GM alone.

But I am still hoping that the GM would at least talk to me about it. I did not go beg for the job from him, he was the one who offered me the job. At least have the courtesy and courage to say “Sorry, our arrangement did not work out.” Be a man!