I can’t remember what happened!!!

All I can remember that after he sign off his love letter to me he will write this date: 920212

Was it the day we fell in love? Or the day we officially declared our love for each other?

Whatever it is, on that day a beautiful and complicated relationship began.

It started with really short distance relationship. We live just 2km away from each other and we worked in the same restaurant. However it only lasted for a few months then it turned into a long distance relationship; he in KL and me in Malacca.

KL is not THAT far but coming from a poor family, KL is VERY FAR. That is when the problem begins because my language of love is Quality Time. I need him besides me as often as possible but he can’t fill my love tank due to financial constraint.

Anyway, that is not what I want to share today. I told my love story many times in my blogs. What I wanted to share is about God, being the center in our relationship.

I fell in love with him because of his Christ-like character. I wanted to know what made him so different than any other guys that I knew. The more I know that it was God who made him who he is, the more I want to know about his God (i was a non-believer then you see). That’s how our friendship begins. Me, searching for the Man behind his wonderful character. Him falling in love with me because I am a tomboy!!!

Most of our dating topic revolves around God and His Word. We often prayed together and commit our relationship to God and asking Him to bless it. Innocently we prayed that He will keep us together no matter what happened in our life because we know that we are still very young then and there are much challenges in life that we will face.

True enough, we went our separate ways 2 years later but 8 years later, God brought us back miraculously! It was a miracle to me because he registered for marriage and I almost got married too! And we broke off because both our almost life partner to be was not compatible spiritually and was pulling us away from God.

Now, almost everyday, I will thank God for giving me back my David.

No and Yes would be the answer. No, I am not a drinker. No, I don’t drink beer, vodka, martini or champagne everyday. There is no need for me to drink. Furthermore, in a hot country like Malaysia, I don’t see the need for me to drink alcoholic drinks. And now that I am pregnant, drinking alcoholic drinks is definitely a NO. I do not want to see my baby suffer from the consequences of me drinking alcoholic drinks. And the price of alcoholic drinks is not cheap either. So basically, I don’t drink.

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