Especially when you are sick. But I don’t get that anymore; from my mom or from my husband. Is it because I am a mother of 4 now that I have to be stronger and stand more pain?

When I have to stand for a period of time to iron hubby’s uniform, I wish hubby would say, “Dear, don’t iron for me, I’ll do it myself.”

When baby demands to be carried, I wish my mom or my hubby (if he is around) would just snatch the baby from my arm and carry him without me requesting them to help.

Why no one stops me from doing some work around the house? Why no one tell me, “Please don’t walk too much, you go rest. I’ll do it for you.”

Don’t they know that I am in pain.