That is what my 2nd daughter commented when I told her the reason I was crying yesterday. “Daddy is very rude for not telling you that he is going to botak (bald) Baby’s hair eh.”

I am still very upset and very angry. Not because our 11mo baby is bald now but his action of secretly balding our baby’s hair without my knowledge.

What else he would do secretly?

I cried buckets yesterday until my mattress is all soak with my tears but the anger still did not want to go away.

Today, hubby pretended like nothing happened! He ALWAYS thinks that he is right. And he will NEVER apologise.

I am PMSing again and it falls on the wrong day; Saturday, the day I hate the most. I felt like throwing a heavy industrial equipment on anyone that steps on my foot!

Due to much washing, my right index finger cracked again. It feels like a knife slicing through it when I use that finger. I can’t get all my housework done as planned.

Thank God Baby is kind to me today. He napped for 2 hours and so did I. At least that cools me down a lot.

How many of you can agree with me on the above phrase? I am not talking about incest! I am talking about your dad’s character in your husband.

The father is the first and most significant role model in a girl’s life. That’s the first man that they loved and look up too. Unconsciously, we will look for a man just like our dad provided he is a good dad.

I married my dad. My hubby manages our finance just like my dad; even my mom commented on that. My hubby does not talk much; just like my dad. My hubby leaves the household chores solely to me; just like my dad. Never once I see my dad sweeps, mop, cook or hang the laundry. My dad never bath us!

Thank God my hubby is not 100% my dad. He is not hot-tempered like my dad. He does bathe his children, mops, sweep, cook and hang laundry when I show my long face.

I see my hubby as the better version of my dad.

Hubby has a Bachelor Degree in Law (MU) and at present, he is studying his 2nd degree in Mission (correspondence). By God’s will, he hope to graduate this year. I wonder whether he will go for the 3rd degree in Business Management. Maybe he can try the online business degree this time around since he is running his own business now.

I read that WGU’s online business degrees are specifically designed for working adults. I am sure they are flexible enough to cater for the busy schedule of a businessman. If time permits, I would like to obtain a 2nd degree too provided online degree is affordable or give special discount for a SAHM like me.

I don’t know lar. Since I married him, he has quiet a number of motorbike fall. He thinks too much I think until he cannot fully concentrate when riding his bike. It is the same when driving too. Many times he almost bang the bumper of the car in front because his mind tends to wonder.

Hello hubby! Why worry about tomorrow?

One of the problems in marriage is money matters. To me, no matter who is earning more or who is the breadwinner, we must have trust when it comes to money. We must find
budgeting tips too.

I really don’t agree with some couples who has a separate bank account unknown by their spouse. Their reason is, just in case my spouse left me for another one.

If this is the case, there is always the worry that your spouse might leave you. Think too much until it will affect the relationship coz there is no trust when you worry.

Think about it.

The cheapest way to get rid of blackheads is by using egg white. One egg cost only 30 cents. One egg can be used on 3 faces. So, one blackheads treatment only cost 10 cents ++ per face. The ++ is for the cost facial cotton. You only need a few pieces. One piece is to be divided into half so that it will be thinner and faster to dry up.

All you got to do is dip the facial cotton into the egg white then paste on your face. Wait till it dries up then peel. You will see that many blackheads will be pulled along and you will have smooth, clean face. Oh ya! Extra protein for your face too.

Hubby and I used to do this when we are have free time. Hmmm…like a year ago before No.4 came into our life. lol.

When he drinks Milo, his tummy will be bloated. When he eats chocolate ice cream, his tummy will be bloated. When he eats chocolate, his tummy will be bloated. We figured that cocoa coz his tummy to be bloated. As I know, cocoa is one of the heaty food and if you have severe acne, you have to stay away from taking any cocoa. Now I know that cocoa causes wind too.

Due to his stomach discomfort, hubby has been on fruit fasting for 2 days already. He only eats fruit and drink plain water for breakfast and lunch. If he continues this for a month, I think he won’t be needing the alli diet pill to slim down! Hahaha. And I can rest from cooking for a month too since I cook mainly for him everyday coz my children eats at their grandma’s most of the time.

Hubby is down again. He had stomach discomfort for a few days already. 2 nights ago, he came home and vomited his dinner. We ate the same food but his stomach seems to be extra sensitive. It has always been that way. I wonder whether his stomach is too healthy to take outside food or too weak. If he continues being this way, I will need adult acne. Why? Dunno what food to cook for him every day. lol.

This “Family Planning” got nothing to do with making more babies or stop making babies.

For 2 Sundays, hubby and I got the opportunity to go out “dating”. Leave the children with my mom and we went to have our quiet dinner.

We took this opportunity to share and plan.

He shared about his business and his business plan. By God’s grace, we hope to settle the business loan by the time our youngest baby turns 1 year old.

I shared about our children; their education, and walk with God. I felt that I have a greater task than hubby. I am to raise godly children! This gives me goosebumps!

I shared about my thoughts; being poorer than my other siblings. Hubby made me realised that we are not poorer than them. We just don’t owe the banks and credit card companies a lot money. And we do have a house; 2 apartments to be exact. It just that we don’t live in them and don’t pay for the monthly installment thus I don’t feel like owning them.

Glad to know that I am more blessed than them.

I felt so relieved that my Primary One daughter has completed her very first examination. We can let the textbooks take a rest for a lil while.

So far, she got back two of her exam papers and her result is very satisfying. She can do better without careless mistakes though but no one is perfect. When I was in school, I did a lot of careless mistakes too and this maybe part of the reasons I get very upset when my own daughter did the same thing.

I am telling myself to take it easy and she is only in Primary One. Let school be fun for her and never to pressure her but encourage her to excel.

I have stopped considering entering the workforce again.

After 1.5 years not needing to step into the office and more than half a year without any helper helping me with my household and kids, I got the hang of it and kinda loving my new “job”. Even if there is jobs in philly that offer very good remuneration, I will pass without thinking twice.

I find satisfaction and fulfillment when I see my children grows up right under my nose.

Yesterday was our ROM (registration of marriage) 9th anniversary and we totally forgotten about it. Hubby remembers though; a day after that. He told me this morning. If he does not, it won’t come across my mind at all.

I guess it is not a significant date for me to remember. Even though we were legally married since that day, we did not lead a married life until we are married before the Lord on May 12 in the same year.

Looking forward to the month of April and May. April; my No. 4 baby will be 1yo!

Hubby is so relieved that his preaching is over. Even though he has been preaching numerous time, he still feel the tense when it is time for him to preach again. His sermon this time was about Joseph. And I felt so kuncheong whenever he mentioned, “my wife” in his preaching. Dunno what he is going to reveal to the congregation about his wife!

As for me, my freedom is having to have my privacy again in my home coz MIL and her maid has left for KL yesterday. Freedom for me means not much free time to be online but I am free to do whatever I like and wear whatever I like at home. And most of all, no one interferes with the raising of my children. No Mak Mak and Kakak to run to when Mommy says, “No!”