First Love…never let it go

Disney cartoons are not just for kids. I know of a couple that loves Disney Characters. They are going to get married soon and they decorated their room with all Disney Characters. From the pillow case to the comforters, from the wardrobe to their mirrors, all Disney. For them, the best honeymoon would be the Disney cruises or a visit to the Disney World. When they have kids later, they could bring them along to visit those places on their n-th honeymoon.

End of last month, we attended yet another wedding dinner in the same hotel. It was the wedding of hubby’s niece. That was a very unique wedding in terms of the races. Hubby’s niece is a Chindian; mother Chinese, father Indian. She is married to a Singh; modern ones without the white turban. I thought Indian and Singh cannot get along! And her hubby’s relatives comes from all over the around the world (almost); some from UK, France, US, Australia but surprisingly none from India!

Nowadays wedding is quite different than my time; 7 years ago. There will surely be slide shows and dancing. How I wish I can turn back time and insert those two in my wedding. It is so much fun than just sitting down, eating and going around shouting “Yum Sheng” (that’s “Cheers” in Chinese).

Anyway, hubby said that we are not going to do this for our children. We will just have tea-ceremony and a simple wedding reception for close relatives and friends. No church wedding as that is Western culture.

In that case, I will make sure it will be the most beautiful wedding reception ever with the most beautiful Wedding Reception Flower Arrangements that people will talk for months about it!

In the book of Malachi, the Lord accused the people of being unfaithful. The men were divorcing their wives. God says that He hates divorce because divorce would not fulfill God’s purpose for marriage. God’s purpose for marriage is so that we can build up godly offspring. Furthermore, when a man and woman are married, they are one in spirit and flesh. Divorce breaks the spiritual union of the married couple. God warns not to break faith with the wife of your youth. Marriage is an important role in every human being.

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Our night out again. I thought we won’t be going anywhere because we are financial tight but hubby decided that he still wanna go catch a movie. I happily oblige but we make sure we take our dinner at home so that we only spend on the movie tickets, pop corn and drinks. Next week, we must do without the pop corn and drinks.

It is great to still be able to take a break away from home and the children and just be with each other enjoying a movie together without needing to pause the movie to make milk, bring the children to the toilet or break a fight.

Being a married couple we need to make time for just US. Don’t you agree?

I get jealous so easily now when hubby chats or coming with close contact with other girls. I wonder why is that so? Is it because I am old, fat and ugly now compared to 7 years ago that I felt insecure and not confidence about myself? I think that is the reason. No matter how he assured me that he love me more now and that I am still sexy to him, I still don’t buy it even if he convince me by buying a Texas Gulf coast waterfront property. Fact is fact lar right that I am older now and fatter compared to 7 years ago. =P

This is the expanded us!!!

psst…this is all I can put up…am so tired after today…will update tomorrow after i have a good night rest.

Our 7th wedding anniversary is in 10 days time but our plan to go for 2nd honeymoon won’t be materialized even though we got good hotel deals from a mommy blogger.

I wanted to go to Bali but hubby can’t leave his business for too many days.

To Genting Highland again, we are not that fit to enjoy all the thrill rides and rock climbing. We also don’t feel comfortable to borrow a car again to go there.

Anyway, we will be going for one night stay at Tiara Beach Resort this Sunday with the kids and my mom. Jadi lar.

We just came back from the local Malay stall. We have Roti Canai, Carrot Milk and Lime Juice.

It was a very fruitful supper time.

I talk about blogging, as always. He talked about ministry. We talked about business, income, family, our vision, new year resolution that has yet to be fulfilled.

At the end of it, we felt so refreshed. We got back our focus in life.

Hubby suggested that we should do this weekly. We will see how it goes.

Being spontaneous.

That’s why we did tonight. All we know that Thursday is our night out. We did not plan on how to spend the night. All I know is, I wanted to eat Ikan Bakar.

So we drove all the way to Padang Temu and had our Ikan Bakar at Muara Sg. Duyung. It was raining so, a walk at the beach after dinner is not possible.

Hubby suggested for us to catch a movie. So to Mahkota Parade we went and we watched Escape from Huang Shi, a story based on true life story about a man named George Hogg that lead 60 Chinese orphaned boys to safety from the Japanese army.

I like spontaneity. It’s fun.

Time to go sleep beside my son. I promised him that before I left him with the maid.

How I wish!

We are just going to revisit our honeymoon destination tomorrow; Genting Highland. We are leaving Malacca to KL today for FOOD, specifically, DIM SUM.

This time we have multiplied. It won’t be just the 2 of us. Our 2 daughters will tag along. I really love that they are coming along because I worry that hubby will hibernate all day long like what he did during our honeymoon there.

I kinda regretted picking Genting Highland as our honeymoon destination. He slept and slept and slept. Hibernate you know. We are supposed to be in “honeymoon” remember???

I must make sure that no cold places for our 2nd Honeymoon. We are going to an Island or a Desert.

I remembered that I mentioned to one of my blogger friends that besides communication, sex is very important in marriage. We should put extra effort to spice our our sex life.

There are many places you can get sex tips online and being able to perform better for your lover is important in many couples relationships. There are different sex games that include different sex toys and other methods to make the relationship more exciting.

I forgotten that it is today until hubby came charging at me and gave me some passionate kisses. I was like, “Huh??? Why did you kiss me like that? What do you want? The kids are here lar.” Our son was near us, sternly said , “No!”.

So, today is our Registration of Marriage anniversary. I am legally his on this day 7 years ago. And the most prevalent memory on that day was me scolding him for spending RM40 for a bouquet of roses! And refusing to hold it to the registration building.

That is me…too practical at times.

You see, at that time we were struggling to save money for our wedding. So, why waste money for something that does not last? If he were to grab the land for sale Branson, maybe I won’t make so much noise. I didn’t know that couples will go there with flowers. My task on that day was…Go there, sign some papers, make a vow, take a few pictures then go home and go on with life.

I wonder who told him that I needed roses!

Since then, hubby did not buy me any roses anymore even on special occasion where a bouquet of flower would be romantic . I don’t mind it now coz, we do have some money to waste.

Anyway, here I am on our anniversary night blogging away and doing some strip tease over Skype.

He is working tonight lar!

Come to think of it, we have not really gone dating for quite a while. We do go out without the children but with errants to do.

Thursday is usually our dating night and we went out last night without any plan or errant to do. We went for a simple dinner at a nearby restaurant, ate our favorite Seafood Tomyam Beehoon then we took a stroll at the beach. Walking and talking about everything. From business, to the children, to the house and also our bedding!

I really enjoy this kind of night. Holding hands as though we are still single and no cares in the world.

We had fun last night, exploring new places.

Left the children behind, we went shopping. Finally hubby bought the punching bag that he has been eyeing for. Then we went to a phone shop and got hubby’s hp repaired. When asked for hubby’s name, they (Malay) were surprised that hubby is not a Malay. Even the Malay can’t differentiate hubby’s look.

We received a lot of attention from other people too. A Chinese Girl and A Malay Guy. I think, it must be hubby’s new glasses. It makes him look more Malay and a very handsome one too.

We explored other places too, and it is in my protected post. Sorry, it is not for the public to read, just for us to remember. I hope I won’t be needing any maternity clothes soon.

This post is taken from my children’s blog.

I was chatting with Chinnee and she asked me about my love story. This is what I found.

Watched Kuch Kuch Hota Hai on TV3 last night (from 11pm until 2am). A Hindi movie acted by Shah Rukh Khan, Kajol, Rani Mukherjee and Salman Khan. I seldom watch Hindi movies but not this one. I watched this movie many many times until the pirated VCD cannot be played anymore! No matter how many times I watch it, I will sure shed tears.

This time around, I watched it with hubby.

Just the 2 of us.
Rest my head on his broad shoulder.
Arms wrapped around his muscular body.
My sexy legs, wrapped around his hairy leg.

Very rare occasion. Coz most of the time, either the children or mom-in-law will be around.

The movie reminds me so much of my love story and my first love. First time watching it when I was still with my ex. Dreaming and hoping that he will be as sporting as Salman Khan to let me go to my first love. And my first love will actually confess that he still loves me and saved me from marrying my ex. Well, not going into details here. You can read more about it here.

Even after the movie ended, I still shed tears while lying in bed thinking about movie and my past. I am so relieved that it is my hubby besides me, not my ex. But the thought is not enough. I requested for us to become one. It was a sweet moment of a union between 2 lovers plus a beautiful sexy lingerie.

Thank you Lord for blessing us with each other.

We dressed in our most comfortable clothes. Me in my baby T and jeans and him in his slack and T-shirt. Then we head to a Malay warong near the beach. Yes, we dine in a warong. Not romantic at all right? Hehehe. Romance can wait later.

Main thing, we get our food quick and we don’t have to queue for parking or even to get into the restaurant.

We ordered our favorite.

Ayam Golek; grilled chicken. Something similar to Kenny Roger’s Roaster but kampong style.

Roti John. I love soaking the sardines coated bread in the chili sauce before savoring it.

Tomyam Bee Hoon. Hot and Sour, a very good appetizer.

Half of the Roti John has to be packed and take away. Too much food for us to finish.

Then we head to the nearest supermarket to get a bottle of lotion and bathroom lights. What did we do with it? “It” is the lotion, not the lights. That is for us to remember and for you to wonder.

My language of love has changed! It used to be, Primary: Quality Time and Secondary: Act of Service. I did the test again last week. Primary is still the same but my Secondary is now Physical Touch. I think it is true that I am more hamsap now!

Hello! Stop giggling! I am NOT okay!

I think partly because I am older now, have grown out of shape and more wrinkles popping up. So I need hubby’s touch more than before to re-affirm that he still wants me and my body is still sexy to him! hahahahaha

I waited and waited for my hubby to finish bathing. He has been in the bathroom for more than half an hour. Well, normally he is not this long. Don’t tell me that he is doing his “hubba hubba” which is very unlikely. So I went to the bathroom. The door was locked. There was no sound of water splashing or any activities in the bathroom.

I gently knocked on the bathroom door. He asked who is it. I replied and he opened the door. He is still clad in his towel, standing in front of the bathroom mirror. In his hand he is holding the hair remover clipper. He has been standing there in front of the bathroom mirror plucking out his white hair. Haiyaaa… so that is what he has been doing in the bathroom for the past half an hour.

“Wah…so many white hair de.” I told him as I noticed the many strands of white hair on the sink. “If you continue doing that, sooner you will need to do a hair transplant“, I continued.

He replied, “No need lah, I already married you”. Hahahaha….maybe I will get a bald husband. It’s okay as I still love him.

My parent, the one who brought me up never ever complaint or said a word about me being stubborn but my hubby who really knew me in less than a decade always points his finger at me when our children behave stubbornly. “Because you are stubborn, that’s why your children also stubborn.” Hello, doesn’t they have your genes too.

Truthfully, maybe he said it jokingly but it hurts deep inside.

A friend told me, “Man sometimes love to keep their brain inside the freezer.”
I replied, “No wonder so cold.”

I really don’t like feeling fat. I know I am fat because my tummy is bulging and my pants are tight. And also when you are in bed, going hubba hubba, not only you do not have much stamina to last as long as possible but the scene isn’t nice seeing so much flab, flabbing away.

So now, I am thinking, should I or should I not get the eca stack or any diet pills to help me burn my fat faster. I can’t fast because I will surely have gastric attack. I can’t run and swimming pool is too far away from home. How?